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You've got to keep an eye on Colton, as his neighbors on his quiet
street in Nephi, Utah, learned during the last two years. He's not
a bad kid on purpose — but people know to keep their houses
and cars locked up now, which they never did before, because if they
don't Colton will get in and mess around with whatever he finds.
So you've got to watch him. He doesn't mean anything by it. Although
he's 13, Colton is autistic and interacts with the world at the level
of a five-year-old. You can't really get mad at him when he doesn't
know his own strength and plays a little rough with the smaller kids,
and then gets mad when you send him home and throws a couple of things
and curses.
There are reasons for concern, though. Neighbors have watched Colton
poke sticks through fences at people's dogs, including a former police
dog whose owner luckily always managed to get there in time. He's thrown
rocks at passing cars, wandered dangerously in the middle of the street
and pulled down his pants in public. Once, he acted as though he was
going to take a dump on someone's ATV that was parked in the front
yard, although the owners stopped him in time.
The reason neighbors were angry and worried at the same time — particularly
Darren and Kallie Galbraith, who had a long-running feud over Colton's
behavior with Colton's mother, Carrie — was that Colton wasn't
supervised, in their view. He could get himself hurt, and he is also
getting big enough that he could hurt someone else. One time the Galbraith's
oldest son came home and found Colton jumping up and down on top of
their horse trailer. Darren doesn't know how he got up there, or how
the kid kept from falling off and breaking his neck. Then there's the
time Colton wandered into an elderly neighbor's bathroom while she
was in the tub — a recipe for all kinds of disaster.
The litany of complaints is backed up by the Nephi Police Department, which
has sent officers to the homes of Carrie and the Galbraiths many, many times.
Their visits had more to do with the conflict between the adults, however.
One house separates Darren and Kallie's place from Carrie and Colton's,
and the only fence is chain-link, so each family has a full view of
the other's front and back yards. Carrie made it clear she thinks the
Galbraiths are prejudiced against her disabled son. The Galbraiths
were furious that no one seemed interested in corralling Colton, especially
after an incident in which Colton threw rocks at their daughter hard
enough to leave large bruises.
Not that the grownups were behaving themselves either. As the grudges
intensified, they traded foul language when passing by each others'
houses, flipped each other the bird and taunted each other from the
safety of their yards. Hand-to-hand combat was narrowly avoided on
several occasions, usually the ones when the police were called.
But nothing changed. Colton still roamed the neighborhood, people
still had to be extra watchful of their children and property, and
one night after yet another visit from the police, Darren knew he'd
had it. So he grabbed some spray paint and a piece of cardboard, made
the following sign —
CAUTION RETARD'S IN AREA
— and hung it from a tree in his front yard, angled toward Colton's house.
The next day Carrie, Colton, his sister and Carrie's companion, Brad Morgan,
piled into the car and drove down the street. Colton didn't notice the sign
(he wouldn’t have been able to read it anyway) — but his sister
did, and she asked, "What does that say?" Carrie knew the Galbraiths sometimes sold watermelons and she figured they
were advertising. It was Brad, behind the wheel, who first read the sign's
words."We're calling the police," he said.
Spend any time with Colton, and you'll realize that he can get into
mischief easily. But he does mind his mother. He stops when he's told.
But he does have to be told.
Colton has thick, dark-brown hair that almost covers his ears, innocent brown
eyes and an open smile. He's rambunctious and enthusiastically, even aggressively,
affectionate, and weak on the concepts of boundaries and personal space.
He's the type who will hug you once, and then again, and then it's as if
he gets stuck on repeat and just has to keep on hugging. If he sees something
he likes — say,
a visitor's bald head — he'll want to touch it, and touch it, and touch
it again. Until his mom says, "Colton, that's enough."
Carrie doesn't believe a word of what her neighbors say about Colton.
Yes, he wandered into a neighbor's house once, but he calls the elderly
couple who live there "grandma" and "grandpa." He
plays with the gravel at the side of the road, sure, but he doesn't throw
it at anybody. He most certainly did not throw rocks at the Galbraith
girl, Carrie says, nor did he chase her down the street to her house
and kick the door when she locked it behind her. |